If you don’t care about my peace of mind, I don’t feel valued by you…
That’s ok, just make sure to establish the peace you need yourself and to realise your feeling here, is sending a reminder. For you to remember who you are, so you can value it to do the above.
If you feel a sense of abandonment or rejection creeping up on you in any matter you are immersed in. Then know that the feeling is showing you, that in that very moment you are not standing in the power of your value.
If you make that conscious connect, you shift because you remember your value & the feeling subsides, because you received what it came to give you.
When you see your feelings as messengers, you don’t run the risk of activating projections, that make you miss the loyal Mail.
My resilience was birthed from the burdens I shouldered, that I now know I shouldnt have had to…..my desire for relief, because of the burdens.
Im looking at my ability for seeing the bigger picture easier than most, differently. Making peace that skipping myself, provided a head start to do it.
I don’t know if that’s a blessing or a tradegy. I feel, I think it’s more the blessing in the midst of the tradegy.
I wondered one day, how I could keep the blessing and end the tradegy…
My heart said through emotional attunement that doesn’t underestimate your value and overestimate others intentions and integrity….
When the hearts involved there should be no negotiation or dictation over how one deals. Let others cradle their unsettled truths and grief how they need to.
Forgiveness is a process that triggers those afraid of accountability. I’m not killing my self softly, hoping you won’t be.