The ego makes one personalise the choice another made for themselves in correlation to you. It personalises because it applies the other persons truth to you. It gets caught up in a web of indirectly treating the other persons truth as the arbiter to judge & measure situation by. So it ends up affecting your self esteem one way or the other. You hone in on all the vulnerable things you feel and project it on the outside all because of this flawed navigation of another’s truth. You feel judged, warped, angry, unfairly treated, hurt, disregarded and/or even abandoned.
The soul sees the choice and is most cognizant of all that you are. It doesn’t personalise it takes their truth by letting it be just that, their truth/ what their heart resonated with. This navigation gives birth to insight for you. The arbiter the soul judges by is in correlation to its truth not the other persons.
Because of the souls courage to accept without resistance. It’s free to discern with out contamination of victim consciousness. What does this persons truth mean to you? What does it teach you about life and about them? This form of navigating around matter ultimately teaches you about yourself. You walk away with a truth birthed from the evaluation made because your own resonation is and allowed to be organically realised.
There is no resentment towards the other person when your soul navigates, there is just awareness. Resentment is a messenger that informs you of where you are giving your power away. Awareness is a well lit platform that Supports you in standing/staying in your power.
Every day people do one of two things, give away their power or not stand in it. The ego gives it away the soul stands firmly in it. This post topic is just one example of how.
Illusions melt away when you find the knowing of your worth. You may even find you feel there is nothing to forgive…
The grace of Allah truly liberates, as victim consciousness becomes exposed for what it truly is. The egos battle cry for survival.
There is a thin line between reassurance and validation. Between co operation and compromise. Between firmness and harshness, between tolerance and cowardice. Between authenticity and being an asshole.
To be aware that you’re treading on the thin line, when you are, is knowledge. To choose to lean towards the former in all of the above is wisdom.
Wisdom can not be cultivated with out consciousness. Nor go full circle without a platform of love for it to spring from.
Love for what’s good. Love for what’s just. Love in spite of, love just because, it’s your essence, make space for it.
The thin line teaches us a lot, it teaches us how we can easily cross between alignment and misalignment. How the choices we make every day support our highest good and how it can sabotage too.
Its not the choices we make that matter, but how we can ignore our conscious that calls for reflection about them.
You need integrity & a mature wholesome mind to not forget.