Round and round we go because of reasons that were obscured……and in my heart I now know….no reason justifies restriction of my flow.
Many nights I prayed….for alignment with my soul. For my words and actions to merge, in harmony with its call.
…and so I was heard
When the trumpet blows it’s impossible to ignore. The soul jumps forth and divine mercy makes sure….you consciously follow.
The ego makes one personalise the choice another made for themselves in correlation to you. It personalises because it applies the other persons truth to you. It gets caught up in a web of indirectly treating the other persons truth as the arbiter to judge & measure situation by. So it ends up affecting your self esteem one way or the other. You hone in on all the vulnerable things you feel and project it on the outside all because of this flawed navigation of another’s truth. You feel judged, warped, angry, unfairly treated, hurt, disregarded and/or even abandoned.
The soul sees the choice and is most cognizant of all that you are. It doesn’t personalise it takes their truth by letting it be just that, their truth/ what their heart resonated with. This navigation gives birth to insight for you. The arbiter the soul judges by is in correlation to its truth not the other persons.
Because of the souls courage to accept without resistance. It’s free to discern with out contamination of victim consciousness. What does this persons truth mean to you? What does it teach you about life and about them? This form of navigating around matter ultimately teaches you about yourself. You walk away with a truth birthed from the evaluation made because your own resonation is and allowed to be organically realised.
There is no resentment towards the other person when your soul navigates, there is just awareness. Resentment is a messenger that informs you of where you are giving your power away. Awareness is a well lit platform that Supports you in standing/staying in your power.
Every day people do one of two things, give away their power or not stand in it. The ego gives it away the soul stands firmly in it. This post topic is just one example of how.
Illusions melt away when you find the knowing of your worth. You may even find you feel there is nothing to forgive…
The grace of Allah truly liberates, as victim consciousness becomes exposed for what it truly is. The egos battle cry for survival.
Respect is not measured by how you are in the moment but how you are during the over all process of a connection.
I think there is justice in this perspective from all angles. You can’t lose respect for someone who over the course of your connection was in alignment with treating you with respect and integrity because in one moment they didn’t.
Likewise you cannot foster a claim of being treated with respect because only in fleeting moments one showered you with it.
That can not be what you choose to remember. Looking at the over all course of your connection, produces the discernment that delivers the correct verdict.
Intentions aside the effect is your reality.
True safety is found not through compensating for your deepest insecurities and fears but through comforting them. These aspects represent your child self that hasn’t been integrated into your adult consciousness because of your self antagonism, and that child desperately wishes to find a home in your heart.
Synergise with your inner child
I did what I did because I love me. In following my heart for eternity I’ll honour love…I’ll honour it enough for us both.
Self love is my compass & self doubt is misguidance. The only proof I have that what I did was the right thing to do, is in the inner peace I felt after I did it.
I don’t know where this path leads but in hope I have created a home. My soul occupies it with contentment, gratitude and love.
Truth doesn’t require defence in the face of others. Just in your presence when doubts fuelled by mental limitations and conceptions tarnish it. Your soul defends it with ‘let it be’ Listen and muster up the courage to face your fears….so that you can let it be.