My resilience was birthed from the burdens I shouldered, that I now know I shouldnt have had to…..my desire for relief, because of the burdens.
Im looking at my ability for seeing the bigger picture easier than most, differently. Making peace that skipping myself, provided a head start to do it.
I don’t know if that’s a blessing or a tradegy. I feel, I think it’s more the blessing in the midst of the tradegy.
I wondered one day, how I could keep the blessing and end the tradegy…
My heart said through emotional attunement that doesn’t underestimate your value and overestimate others intentions and integrity….
When the hearts involved there should be no negotiation or dictation over how one deals. Let others cradle their unsettled truths and grief how they need to.
Forgiveness is a process that triggers those afraid of accountability. I’m not killing my self softly, hoping you won’t be.