Respect is not measured by how you are in the moment but how you are during the over all process of a connection.
I think there is justice in this perspective from all angles. You can’t lose respect for someone who over the course of your connection was in alignment with treating you with respect and integrity because in one moment they didn’t.
Likewise you cannot foster a claim of being treated with respect because only in fleeting moments one showered you with it.
That can not be what you choose to remember. Looking at the over all course of your connection, produces the discernment that delivers the correct verdict.
Intentions aside the effect is your reality.